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鈥榊ou did not come this far just to come this far鈥

Thursday, May 6, 2021
Mayra Soto
Mayra Soto
Mayra Soto
Mayra Soto
Mayra Soto

黑料老司机 student graduates while working full-time, caring for terminally ill son 


Mayra Soto is graduating this spring from 黑料老司机 (黑料老司机) and she has a message to share: 鈥淭o everyone wondering if they can do it, you can. You did not come this far just to come this far.鈥

Mayra began her journey at 黑料老司机 in 2019 with the goal of getting an associate degree in business administration in two years. A pretty attainable goal until you factor in that the first-generation college student is also a full-time Patient Care Coordinator at Banner Health and a mother to two children, one of whom has a terminal rare neuromuscular disease.

鈥淚 was determined to complete an education to assure that my son always has everything he needs because I worked hard to assure that I set our future to be stable for him and my daughter,鈥 Mayra said.

Her son, Jordan, has giant axonal neuropathy, or GAN, a rare inherited genetic disorder that affects both the central and peripheral nervous systems. Jordan, who turns 11 in June, was diagnosed with GAN when he was 4.

鈥淭hat day was really hard,鈥 Mayra said. 鈥淚 was 22 and sat in a room while a doctor told us they had never seen this disease, didn鈥檛 have much information on it other than what they were reading from a book, and that my son wasn鈥檛 going to be with us for long.鈥

Children diagnosed with GAN typically don鈥檛 survive past their 20s. As the disorder progresses, the symptoms worsen. Most people with GAN first have problems with walking. Later, they may lose sensation, strength, and reflexes in their limbs; experience difficulty coordinating movements; and require wheelchair assistance.

鈥淲e were told that at around 10 years of age, things would start to get tough, and oh boy, they have,鈥 Mayra said. 鈥淲e now see a team of about 14 doctors, a doctor for every part of Jordan鈥檚 body, on top of a physical therapist and psychologist as this takes a toll not only on Jordan but all of us around him.鈥

Mayra has spent countless hours at the hospital with her laptop by her side in order to complete her education while being the rock that keeps her son going. She has taken all of her classes online, the only option, she said, that made it possible for her to earn a degree.

鈥淚 wouldn't have been able to achieve my associate without the online degree option at Estrella,鈥 she said. 鈥淚t has made it all so simple for me. I am able to log on, pick my classes, and just get going.鈥

贰惭颁颁鈥檚 also helped. give students the opportunity to enroll in classes that start at different times throughout the semester and complete the courses in a shorter period of time.

鈥淭he fact that I have been able to do fast track classes and make sure some start as others finish has made it all flow smoothly,鈥 she said.

Mayra has already been accepted to Arizona State University. She will begin in the fall and work toward a bachelor鈥檚 in the business field as well as a certificate in nonprofit leadership.

鈥淚 want to be able to grow into a management role at Banner Health and also start a nonprofit to serve the Hispanic community with resources for children with neuromuscular conditions,鈥 she said. 鈥淏eing a Hispanic mother and working in the healthcare field, I know how hard maneuvering the healthcare system can be a lot of times.鈥

For now, Mayra is looking forward to celebrating her achievement with her boyfriend, Edwin, and her two children, Jordan and Ellie, who is 5, during 贰惭颁颁鈥檚 Car-mence-ment Ceremony on May 12 and on May 14.

鈥淚 am beyond excited,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 feel like many don鈥檛 think associates are big deals, but to me, it is. I am a mother and I have a full life that I take care of. I didn鈥檛 think I would be able to get myself back to school with everything else I do. It is such a big deal for me.鈥   


It鈥檚 not too late to apply for graduation and participate in 贰惭颁颁鈥檚 Car-mence-ment Ceremony, the college鈥檚 socially distanced alternative to the traditional in-person ceremony. During the event, graduates will drive through campus, pick up their diploma covers, mortarboard decorations, get their pictures taken, and pick up some 黑料老司机 swag, all while being celebrated by 黑料老司机 faculty and staff. To learn more, go to .